To Renee Jacques at HuffPo: your kids and divorce article was callous and one-sided
To Renee Jacques at HuffPo,
I came across your article today:
11 Reasons Your Parents’ Divorce Isn’t So Bad After All
The piece is so callous that at first I wondered if you were joking. Then I realized you weren’t joking.
It’s hard to know where to start in my criticism of your piece, so let’s just dive into the middle:
3. You know to never ignore your emotions and to face your feelings. That way, you can make the hard but important decisions in your life.
“You know to never ignore your emotions….” except your emotions about your parent’s divorce and how confusing it is. Those must be ignored at all costs, so that your parents won’t ever feel bad about their choices. If your feelings make them feel bad, this might jeopardize your standing with them since as a child you’re the vulnerable one.
Or how about this:
4. You begin to realize how much your opinion matters to your parents.
“Your opinion matters to your parents…” except your opinion about their divorce(s), remarriages, and all the Read more…